Some time ago, not too long, I start to wonder how would our(my) generation bring up our(my) next generation?
In my generation,we're mostly the only child or only daughter/son. Lucky enough, you'll have a few siblings. 3 sounds good. Excluding yourself, you've an elder brother and a younger sister. To see a family with 4-5 children is very very rare. Still have, but, rare. Come the next generation, I'm sure 2 is already an exaggerated number. Most couples will end up with 1 kid and the reason for that would be - raising one is tiring enough.
From the single statement answer alone, I can conclude several things. What does it mean by tiring? Obviously not the literal meaning of physical fatigue I'm sure. More of mental tiredness.
Nowadays, younger parents (assuming both are educated) are putting a lot of emphasis on the growing up years of their only child (at most two). From as young as 2 years old, kids are sent to toddler-class preparing them for nursery. From there, the whole journey of education starts and will not stop till they're about 23 (for girls) and 25 (for the guys). 20 years of........learning, going through examinations and extra curriculum just for...a bright future. I would say, all these will just help you remain competitive in future because most children will have a bright future and the key factor is to remain competitive. Parents are tired because they've to make sure their children are competitive enough.
Take away academics, parents have to worry for their children's social life. Worry if their daughter is safe with her male friends and worry if their son is mixing around with the right company. All the continuous worrying is taxing on the parents' mental. Things get worse when parents found their children on the wrong track and trying very hard to get them on the right one. This usually happens during their teenage years - rebellious and stubborn. And, communication between parents and children start to fall in different frequency. Smart parents will try to minimise conflicts between them. Smarter parents will keep nagging to minimum and show their kids that they care; through one way or another. It is then parents will start to stress over how to maintain good relationship with their children and realise that their small lil boys and girls are no longer the same anymore. Dictating their lives is the last thing to do. Ah, parents are stressed.
And, the cost of bringing up a child is WAHHHH. And, the returns? HAI.
Okay, I'm gonna watch my tv and destress. I feel stressed up just by writing about it. I'm sure that was me being a parent I was talking above.
Sheesh.
Kids.......are.....scary.......monsters.